I rarely talk about Marriage seriously to my Abah. lol. Don't ask me why but it's just a topic I'd rarely touch. I usually speak about marriage to the sisters or my best friend. :P
TODAY apparently was a lil different. We spoke about marriage. My mum was there too; surprisingly she only spoke for a bit. LOL...
Abah-: Fatin will marry an Arab, I'll find you a Javanese* from Jogjakarta*. I have a relative there that has a son, should be some what your age. what say?
Javanese-: Indonesian Extract
Jogjakarta-: Some city in Indonesia; never been there, don't know how it's like. (I ain't no geography freak.lol)
Me-: I don't really bother where he's from as long as he's pious and he can support me Insya'Allah.
Mother-: Don't marry the rich Indons, they'll make you work and they'll sit at home. Marry Indians. You sit at home and they'll go to work.
Me-: Good Idea. I don't mind marrying Javanese; taking into consideration that my dad is a good person and he's handsome and he's javanese. but then again, i want to marry an Indian. what say Abah?
Abah-: Astaghfirullah....
Mother-: Hello? What is that supposed to mean?
Abah-: I don't want my daughter to be cooking curry everyday.
Me-: OMG RACIST. lool. Abah then again I don't want to eat tempe* everyday. HAHAHA.
Tempe-: a popular Indonesian dish/snack made of soybeans
Abah-: On a serious note, I have someone in mind already. When you're ready Insya'Allah I'll talk to his parents.
Me-: Abah, don't freak me out. I'm serious, I want to marry an Indian.
Abah-: Hmm... we'll see.
Me-: I'm not ready for marriage in the first place, so cut it.
Abah-: yesyes study first. Make sure you don't start dating when you start school eh.
Me-: Astaghfirullah, it's haram. Insya'Allah if I do so, I'll tell you so we can do it the HALAL way. heh.
Abah-: Alright dude. You need to tell your mum to chill.
Me-: LOL... your wife. you talk to her.
Abah-: LOL (Pronounced really weirdly.)
Me-: Abah don't you think it's ironic how you want me to marry someone of your race but you yourself marry someone of the opposite race? You married an INDIAN mind you. I have Indian blood running through my veins. I should be speaking tamil. seriously. Don't start freaking out if you do see me bringing an Indian guy to home for dinner to meet you because abi,it's in the veins. you started it; I'm just completing the cycle *grins*
Abah-: *Starts Zikr-ing*
What is with parents and wanting us to get married to those of our own race? I've heard of sisters whose parents want them to get married with brothers from the same country too. sheesshhhhh.
LOL...
I'm 16 turning 17. Marriage? Give me a break. Sure in 3-4 years Insya'Allah :D
-A'qilah Saiere-
Thursday, 19 March 2009
Abah, Mak and Marriage talks.
Posted by Hijabis On Ranting Tour. at Thursday, March 19, 2009
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i want to get married. Insha Allah lol
i want to get married too loool. Insya'Allah :P
A'qilah
but you just said you dont want to now lol
hahaha.. aqilah it was so funny reading it. i couldnt stop laughing. noe wat u r not da only one. my mum kept saying that too. but it was fun though. haha. well who knows ur dream of marrying an indian will come true. ameen.. hehe. but arabs are cool man....
to Habibty, lol eventually sis. NOT NOW :P
to Huda
heh, lol Insya'Allah :) yeah it's fun aint it. ermmmm arabs are cool sure :D
lool
my mum wud be like
marry anyone
aslong as dey are
SOMALI SOMALI AND ERM SOMALI if ti was 4rm tht familly it wud be helpfull
bt its nt my familys fault
our famillys buisness is every1s buisness
as u know aqilah
anyways i dnt mind im in love with a somali :P *runs away*
naz
Marriage License is needed for people below the age of 21 who want to get married in Singapore. For Muslim marriages, the minimum age is 18 and parents must be present if the male is below 21 years of age. (I found this source through one of the govt website)
LOL @ naz omg u and yr farhan SHEESH lol
hahhahaa so happy for you habibty :)
to Norsiah YAY! I'll get married when i'm done with poly :P
A'qilah~
Haha, serious?? hahah you still young after you done with poly.. haha :)..
LOL well not exactly right after lololol sis i heard 16 can get married already what you sure it's 18 :S
looooooooooooool
yeeh farhan flipin took over my mind
:P
lol
loove u darlin
naz
Assalamualaikum,
Insya'Allah, I'll pray you'll get married soon, thus ending your parents' misery. LoL~
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